"You're in a mess, and in excess"
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"You're in a mess, and in excess" lands like a perfectly timed Strayhorn chord: compact, elegant, and quietly devastating. As a composer who lived inside nuance - writing for Duke Ellington while often standing just offstage as a Black, gay artist in mid-century America - Strayhorn understood how to say the unsayable in a single turn of phrase. The line feels like lyric, but it behaves like a diagnosis.
Its power is in the double bind. "Mess" is not just disorder; it's embarrassment, the kind you can smell on someone who has pushed too far. "Excess" sharpens the critique: this isn't bad luck or chaos imposed from outside. It's self-authored overreach, indulgence, a surplus that curdles into consequence. The pairing creates a sly internal rhyme of meaning if not sound, a little musical vamp where one word shadows the other. You're not merely tangled; you are too much.
Strayhorn's world - jazz clubs, late nights, coded language, the glamour and exhaustion of constant performance - makes "excess" feel culturally specific. It evokes not moralizing purity but the price of living fast in a society that both sells you escape and punishes you for taking it. There's also a composer's ear in the economy: seven words, two clauses, a comma that acts like a rest, letting the listener feel the judgment arrive a beat later. The subtext is intimacy with teeth: I know you, I see the pattern, and I'm not going to romanticize it.
Its power is in the double bind. "Mess" is not just disorder; it's embarrassment, the kind you can smell on someone who has pushed too far. "Excess" sharpens the critique: this isn't bad luck or chaos imposed from outside. It's self-authored overreach, indulgence, a surplus that curdles into consequence. The pairing creates a sly internal rhyme of meaning if not sound, a little musical vamp where one word shadows the other. You're not merely tangled; you are too much.
Strayhorn's world - jazz clubs, late nights, coded language, the glamour and exhaustion of constant performance - makes "excess" feel culturally specific. It evokes not moralizing purity but the price of living fast in a society that both sells you escape and punishes you for taking it. There's also a composer's ear in the economy: seven words, two clauses, a comma that acts like a rest, letting the listener feel the judgment arrive a beat later. The subtext is intimacy with teeth: I know you, I see the pattern, and I'm not going to romanticize it.
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Strayhorn, Billy. (2026, January 16). You're in a mess, and in excess. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-in-a-mess-and-in-excess-131914/
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Strayhorn, Billy. "You're in a mess, and in excess." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-in-a-mess-and-in-excess-131914/.
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"You're in a mess, and in excess." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-in-a-mess-and-in-excess-131914/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.
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