"You're never as good as everyone tells you when you win, and you're never as bad as they say when you lose"
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Praise and criticism travel in swings far wider than reality. Victory draws a halo that turns ordinary plays into genius and small mistakes invisible; defeat throws a shadow that hides effort, context, and the narrow margins that decide outcomes. Lou Holtz, forged in the weekly judgment cycle of college football, learned that public verdicts are noisy, fast, and often wrong. His line is a call to resist the tug of both vanity and despair.
The insight cuts against outcome bias and recency bias, the human habits of treating the latest score as the truest measure. Games hinge on inches, injuries, weather, or a single bounce. A team that wins may still have porous coverage or sloppy execution; a team that loses may have built the right plan and simply been outflanked by variance. Regression to the mean lurks behind both extremes, pulling performances back toward their real level once the noise fades.
For athletes and leaders, the practical lesson is calibration. After a win, go to the film room and hunt for truths praise obscures. After a loss, salvage the patterns that do work and fix what is fixable. Anchor identity to preparation, fundamentals, and standards rather than applause or boos. That stance keeps confidence from becoming complacency and accountability from becoming self-doubt.
The reach extends beyond sports. Markets overvalue the hot hand and punish temporary dips. Creative work receives raves or pans that say as much about trends as about craft. Elections deliver overread mandates and overread repudiations. In all of these arenas, performance improves when feedback is stripped of hysteria and turned into specific, actionable learning.
Holtz points to a competitive superpower: steadiness. Neither inflated by compliments nor shattered by criticism, a person or team can keep showing up, adjusting, and compounding small edges. The scoreboard matters, but the habits that produce it matter more, because those are what endure once the cheering fades.
The insight cuts against outcome bias and recency bias, the human habits of treating the latest score as the truest measure. Games hinge on inches, injuries, weather, or a single bounce. A team that wins may still have porous coverage or sloppy execution; a team that loses may have built the right plan and simply been outflanked by variance. Regression to the mean lurks behind both extremes, pulling performances back toward their real level once the noise fades.
For athletes and leaders, the practical lesson is calibration. After a win, go to the film room and hunt for truths praise obscures. After a loss, salvage the patterns that do work and fix what is fixable. Anchor identity to preparation, fundamentals, and standards rather than applause or boos. That stance keeps confidence from becoming complacency and accountability from becoming self-doubt.
The reach extends beyond sports. Markets overvalue the hot hand and punish temporary dips. Creative work receives raves or pans that say as much about trends as about craft. Elections deliver overread mandates and overread repudiations. In all of these arenas, performance improves when feedback is stripped of hysteria and turned into specific, actionable learning.
Holtz points to a competitive superpower: steadiness. Neither inflated by compliments nor shattered by criticism, a person or team can keep showing up, adjusting, and compounding small edges. The scoreboard matters, but the habits that produce it matter more, because those are what endure once the cheering fades.
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