"You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day"
About this Quote
The intent is pragmatic and political. Edelman’s life’s work in child advocacy and civil rights lives in arenas where “winning” is often delayed, partial, or denied by forces bigger than individual virtue: institutions, budgets, courts, public attention spans. “You’re not obligated to win” is a rebuke to the corrosive myth that justice movements fail because the people in them weren’t exceptional enough. It shifts the ethical center from results (which can be stolen, postponed, or diluted) to practice: showing up, doing the work, refining the work.
The subtext is also a warning against cynicism dressed up as realism. If winning is the only acceptable outcome, then losing becomes permission to disengage. Edelman blocks that escape hatch. “Every day” is the real power phrase here: it makes commitment granular, survivable, repeatable. The quote works because it turns discipline into dignity. It gives activists, caregivers, and anyone grinding through incremental change a standard they can actually control - and a reason to keep their hands on the wheel even when the scoreboard looks rigged.
Quote Details
| Topic | Perseverance |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Uncle John's Bathroom Reader Quintessential Collection of... (Bathroom Readers' Institute, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781607106715 · ID: RClZDwAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... You're not obligated to win . You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day . " -Marian Wright Edelman “ I never did say that you can't be a nice guy and win . I said that if I was playing third base and my mother ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edelman, Marian Wright. (2026, February 7). You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-not-obligated-to-win-youre-obligated-to-88525/
Chicago Style
Edelman, Marian Wright. "You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-not-obligated-to-win-youre-obligated-to-88525/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-not-obligated-to-win-youre-obligated-to-88525/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







