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Success Quote by Marian Wright Edelman

"You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day"

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In a culture that treats winning like a moral verdict, Marian Wright Edelman offers a quieter standard: effort as duty, outcome as weather. The line doesn’t flatter you with guaranteed triumph; it refuses that bargain entirely. By decoupling obligation from victory, Edelman smuggles in a radical kind of mercy - not the soft kind that lowers expectations, but the hard kind that keeps you from turning setbacks into a reason to quit.

The intent is pragmatic and political. Edelman’s life’s work in child advocacy and civil rights lives in arenas where “winning” is often delayed, partial, or denied by forces bigger than individual virtue: institutions, budgets, courts, public attention spans. “You’re not obligated to win” is a rebuke to the corrosive myth that justice movements fail because the people in them weren’t exceptional enough. It shifts the ethical center from results (which can be stolen, postponed, or diluted) to practice: showing up, doing the work, refining the work.

The subtext is also a warning against cynicism dressed up as realism. If winning is the only acceptable outcome, then losing becomes permission to disengage. Edelman blocks that escape hatch. “Every day” is the real power phrase here: it makes commitment granular, survivable, repeatable. The quote works because it turns discipline into dignity. It gives activists, caregivers, and anyone grinding through incremental change a standard they can actually control - and a reason to keep their hands on the wheel even when the scoreboard looks rigged.

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TopicPerseverance
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Later attribution: Uncle John's Bathroom Reader Quintessential Collection of... (Bathroom Readers' Institute, 2012) modern compilationISBN: 9781607106715 · ID: RClZDwAAQBAJ
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... You're not obligated to win . You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day . " -Marian Wright Edelman “ I never did say that you can't be a nice guy and win . I said that if I was playing third base and my mother ...
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Edelman, Marian Wright. (2026, February 7). You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-not-obligated-to-win-youre-obligated-to-88525/

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Edelman, Marian Wright. "You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-not-obligated-to-win-youre-obligated-to-88525/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You're not obligated to win. You're obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youre-not-obligated-to-win-youre-obligated-to-88525/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Marian Wright Edelman

Marian Wright Edelman (born June 6, 1939) is a Activist from USA.

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