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Motivation Quote by Arthur Ashe

"You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing"

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Ashe’s line isn’t motivational wallpaper; it’s a hard-earned reframe from someone who learned that the scoreboard can’t be the only judge that matters. “Get to the stage in life” signals maturity, but also survival: the point isn’t that winning is irrelevant, it’s that outcomes are volatile and often unfair. When your identity is chained to victory, you become easy to break. Ashe is offering a different kind of toughness - the kind that keeps you in the arena when conditions (injury, age, politics, prejudice) shift the rules.

“Going for it” sounds simple, almost casual, and that’s the trick. He’s stripping ambition down to its most controllable unit: effort, risk, the willingness to be seen trying. For an athlete, especially an elite Black athlete navigating mostly white institutions in Ashe’s era, “winning” was never just personal glory; it was a referendum. The subtext is a refusal to let the world’s verdict - applause, rankings, headlines - dictate whether your attempt was meaningful.

Context matters: Ashe wasn’t only Wimbledon champion; he was also an AIDS activist after a transfusion-related infection, and a public figure who repeatedly had to translate private pain into public poise. In that light, the quote reads less like a pep talk and more like a strategy for dignity. It grants permission to act boldly even when the result is unknowable, and it quietly argues that the most adult form of courage is choosing the attempt anyway.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ashe, Arthur. (2026, January 18). You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-get-to-the-stage-in-life-where-going-4328/

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Ashe, Arthur. "You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-get-to-the-stage-in-life-where-going-4328/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"You've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-get-to-the-stage-in-life-where-going-4328/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Arthur Ashe

Arthur Ashe (July 10, 1943 - February 6, 1993) was a Athlete from USA.

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