"You've got to have a sense of humour about sex. When you look at it, it's all pretty ridiculous, isn't it?"
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The subtext is a quiet critique of sexual seriousness as status-seeking. When sex becomes a referendum on desirability, competence, or adulthood, people tighten up, and the stakes balloon. Deeley’s antidote is humor, not as deflection, but as a pressure valve: if you can laugh, you can stay present, recover from misfires, and avoid turning intimacy into an audition. “Isn’t it?” seals the point with conspiratorial intimacy, inviting the audience into a shared secret: everyone fumbles, everyone looks strange, bodies make noise, timing goes sideways.
As a celebrity voice, it also reads like an on-camera recalibration of cultural messaging. Pop culture sells sex as effortless, aesthetic, and endlessly confident; everyday life is more erratic, more human. Deeley gives permission to be unglamorous without being ashamed. The “ridiculous” isn’t contempt - it’s relief.
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"You've got to have a sense of humour about sex. When you look at it, it's all pretty ridiculous, isn't it?" FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-have-a-sense-of-humour-about-sex-12066/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.
