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Life's Pleasures Quote by Billie Holiday

"You've got to have something to eat and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any damn body's sermon on how to behave"

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Survival comes first, then tenderness, and only then do we get to pretend we care about anyone else’s morality lecture. Billie Holiday’s line lands with the blunt authority of someone who’s watched “good behavior” get preached most aggressively at people who have the least room to breathe. The profanity isn’t just spice; it’s a refusal to dress up a truth that polite society prefers to keep behind velvet ropes.

Holiday frames ethics as a luxury product, not an eternal principle. “Something to eat” is literal hunger, the baseline of dignity. “A little love” is the next rung: not romance as fantasy, but the bare minimum of being held in someone’s regard. Without those, sermons become performance art for the comfortable, a way to brand hardship as personal failure. The subtext is cutting: if you want people to “behave,” stop moralizing and start distributing resources and care.

The wording matters. “Hold still” makes the sermon feel like physical restraint, a demand for quiet compliance. “Any damn body’s” widens the target from one hypocrite to a whole system of sanctimony: employers, police, politicians, reformers, even fans who wanted Holiday’s pain to come packaged as entertainment.

In Holiday’s America, hunger and lovelessness weren’t abstractions; they were policy outcomes, racialized realities, and the price of surviving an industry that profited off Black artistry while policing Black life. She turns that lived knowledge into a compact argument: morality without material security is just another instrument of control.

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Holiday, Billie. (2026, January 16). You've got to have something to eat and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any damn body's sermon on how to behave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-have-something-to-eat-and-a-little-139498/

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Holiday, Billie. "You've got to have something to eat and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any damn body's sermon on how to behave." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-have-something-to-eat-and-a-little-139498/.

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"You've got to have something to eat and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any damn body's sermon on how to behave." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-have-something-to-eat-and-a-little-139498/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Billie Holiday (April 7, 1915 - July 17, 1959) was a Musician from USA.

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