Novel: The Man Who Made Husbands Jealous
Premise
A rakish, urbane British playboy nurses a broken heart by embarking on a mischievous project: making other men's wives fall for him so their husbands will suffer the pangs of jealousy. The plan is at once selfish and theatrical, a revenge fantasy turned performance art that quickly spirals into a succession of romantic capers. Every caper peels back a layer of contemporary high society, exposing vanity, longing and the messy contradictions of desire.
Main character and scheme
Lysander Hawkley is charismatic, witty and blessed with a gift for timing that turns flirtation into an almost professional craft. Rejected and stung by his own romantic disappointment, he sets out to charm women not for lasting connection but as a way to punish complacent husbands and to soothe his wounded pride. What begins as an exercise in control and spectacle becomes complicated as Lysander discovers how mutable motives and unpredictable hearts can be.
Plot arc
Lysander moves through a glittering landscape of country houses, London parties and celebrity settings, each encounter escalating into comic misunderstanding, reputational jeopardy and romantic risk. As he toys with affection and manipulates situations to provoke jealousy, he attracts a motley assortment of allies, rivals and the unintentionally vulnerable. Entanglements multiply, loyalties are tested, and his own feelings, once armored by sarcasm, begin to shift, forcing a confrontation between the transient thrill of conquest and the possibility of genuine attachment.
Supporting characters and conflicts
A cast of vividly drawn social types, ambitious wives, insecure husbands, scheming friends and dismayed lovers, populate Lysander's orbit and drive much of the novel's momentum. Relationships are transactional and theatrical, but they also reveal sincere anxieties about aging, fidelity and social standing. Conflicts arise not only from jealous husbands but from the hypocrisies and small cruelties of a class that prizes appearance over truth.
Setting and style
Set against the polished backdrops of late 20th-century British high life, the prose sparkles with gossip, wit and descriptive bravura. Scenes shift from elegant drawing rooms to frenetic media events, capturing both the glamour and the ridiculousness of celebrity culture. Dialogue crackles, narration relishes scandal and comedic timing drives the pacing, lending the story a buoyant, sometimes raucous energy.
Themes and tone
At its heart, the tale is about performance, of masculinity, romance and social worth, and about the consequences when performance replaces authenticity. It interrogates the ethics of manipulation while delighting in the extravagant pleasures of scandal and seduction. The tone balances affectionate satire with unabashed escapism; bawdy episodes and tender insights coexist, making room for laughter even as the characters confront vulnerability.
Resolution and resonance
As the misadventures accumulate, Lysander faces the inevitable: a choice between continuing his rollicking persona and risking everything for a deeper bond. The culmination reframes his campaign of revenge as a path toward self-understanding, suggesting that destiny often arrives through the very follies meant to distract from pain. The novel leaves a lasting impression as a witty, warm-hearted study of love's complications, celebrating the messy, redemptive power of human connection.
A rakish, urbane British playboy nurses a broken heart by embarking on a mischievous project: making other men's wives fall for him so their husbands will suffer the pangs of jealousy. The plan is at once selfish and theatrical, a revenge fantasy turned performance art that quickly spirals into a succession of romantic capers. Every caper peels back a layer of contemporary high society, exposing vanity, longing and the messy contradictions of desire.
Main character and scheme
Lysander Hawkley is charismatic, witty and blessed with a gift for timing that turns flirtation into an almost professional craft. Rejected and stung by his own romantic disappointment, he sets out to charm women not for lasting connection but as a way to punish complacent husbands and to soothe his wounded pride. What begins as an exercise in control and spectacle becomes complicated as Lysander discovers how mutable motives and unpredictable hearts can be.
Plot arc
Lysander moves through a glittering landscape of country houses, London parties and celebrity settings, each encounter escalating into comic misunderstanding, reputational jeopardy and romantic risk. As he toys with affection and manipulates situations to provoke jealousy, he attracts a motley assortment of allies, rivals and the unintentionally vulnerable. Entanglements multiply, loyalties are tested, and his own feelings, once armored by sarcasm, begin to shift, forcing a confrontation between the transient thrill of conquest and the possibility of genuine attachment.
Supporting characters and conflicts
A cast of vividly drawn social types, ambitious wives, insecure husbands, scheming friends and dismayed lovers, populate Lysander's orbit and drive much of the novel's momentum. Relationships are transactional and theatrical, but they also reveal sincere anxieties about aging, fidelity and social standing. Conflicts arise not only from jealous husbands but from the hypocrisies and small cruelties of a class that prizes appearance over truth.
Setting and style
Set against the polished backdrops of late 20th-century British high life, the prose sparkles with gossip, wit and descriptive bravura. Scenes shift from elegant drawing rooms to frenetic media events, capturing both the glamour and the ridiculousness of celebrity culture. Dialogue crackles, narration relishes scandal and comedic timing drives the pacing, lending the story a buoyant, sometimes raucous energy.
Themes and tone
At its heart, the tale is about performance, of masculinity, romance and social worth, and about the consequences when performance replaces authenticity. It interrogates the ethics of manipulation while delighting in the extravagant pleasures of scandal and seduction. The tone balances affectionate satire with unabashed escapism; bawdy episodes and tender insights coexist, making room for laughter even as the characters confront vulnerability.
Resolution and resonance
As the misadventures accumulate, Lysander faces the inevitable: a choice between continuing his rollicking persona and risking everything for a deeper bond. The culmination reframes his campaign of revenge as a path toward self-understanding, suggesting that destiny often arrives through the very follies meant to distract from pain. The novel leaves a lasting impression as a witty, warm-hearted study of love's complications, celebrating the messy, redemptive power of human connection.
The Man Who Made Husbands Jealous
A tale of the irrepressible Lysander Hawkley, who sets out to cure his broken heart by making other women's husbands jealous. Along the way, he becomes entangled in a series of romantic misadventures that ultimately leads him to his true destiny.
- Publication Year: 1993
- Type: Novel
- Genre: Romance
- Language: English
- Characters: Lysander Hawkley, Kitty Rannaldini, Clementine
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Author: Jilly Cooper

More about Jilly Cooper
- Occup.: Author
- From: United Kingdom
- Other works:
- Riders (1985 Novel)
- Rivals (1988 Novel)
- Polo (1991 Novel)
- Appassionata (1996 Novel)
- Score! (1999 Novel)