Not Since You (2009)

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A romantic drama about a tight-knit group of college friends who graduated from NYU the year of 9/11 and reunite years later for a weekend wedding in Georgia. Unresolved conflicts and love affairs spark again.

Introduction
"Not Since You" is a romantic drama film from 2009 directed by Jeff Stephenson. This ensemble film features a range of characters who reunite for a wedding and discover themselves facing their past relationships and the choices they have actually made considering that their college days. The reunion stimulates memories, reignites old flames, and results in brand-new awareness as the friends navigate through complex emotions and life's unpredictable journey.

Plot Synopsis
The film focuses on a group of friends from college who come together after numerous years for the wedding event of their pal Amy (Kathleen Robertson) in Athens, Georgia. The primary character, Sam (Desmond Harrington), once the center of their social circle, go back to the group after an extended period away in New York, where he has actually been trying to make his mark as an author.

Sam's arrival provokes blended responses from his former buddies. His ex-girlfriend, Victoria (Sunny Mabrey), who is still harboring feelings for Sam, should face her emotions while handling her own life's frustrations. On The Other Hand, Howard (Elden Henson), who when idolized Sam, comes to grips with their friendship's modifications and his own insecurities.

The heart of the story is the unresolved romantic tension between Sam and Amy. Throughout their college days, Amy constantly harbored a secret love for Sam, which never ever concerned fruition due to his relationship with Victoria. As the wedding event weekend progresses, old injuries are opened and tricks are exposed. Sam's unexpected look complicates matters for Amy as she must choose between her previous feelings and her dedication to her fiance, Joey (Christian Kane).

Supporting characters complete the film, including Sarah (Willa Ford), a single mother and the ethical compass of the group, and Howard's girlfriend, Kathleen (Sara Rue), whose witty and straightforward character often cuts through the tension. As the good friends grapple with their personal predicaments, the story explores themes of love, forgiveness, nostalgia, and the passage of time.

Themes and Character Development
The movie delves into the obstacles of transitioning from the idealism of college to the truths of adult life. It examines how people evolve and how relationships typically fail to keep pace with personal development. "Not Since You" represents the battle to let go of idealized memories and the requirement to challenge the reality of today.

Sam's character is central to the themes of the film as his return forces everybody to review their past decisions and their effects. His journey of self-discovery and the attempt to reconcile with his own errors drives the narrative forward.

Reception and Impact
"Not Since You" got combined evaluations from critics and audiences upon release. Its strengths depend on the chemistry amongst the cast and the resonant themes that lots of can associate with, such as the trouble of proceeding and the complexities of old friendships. However, some viewers found the plot foreseeable and the characters' issues clichéd.

Despite its reviews, the film captures a sense of authenticity in its portrayal of young adults grappling with the jarring transition to their thirties, when life's expectations often fulfill truth. It stands as a testimony to the enduring nature of specific relationships and the extensive effect they have on our lives, long after they have actually seemingly ended.

Conclusion
In essence, "Not Since You" is a poignant reflection on love and friendship, and the profound effect they have on our identities and choices. The film invites audiences to contemplate their individual journeys and the sentimental yearning for easier times, while also urging them to welcome the present and the continual evolution of self.

Top Cast

  • Desmond Harrington (small)
    Desmond Harrington
    Sam Nelson
  • Kathleen Robertson (small)
    Kathleen Robertson
    Amy Smith
  • Jon Abrahams (small)
    Jon Abrahams
    Howard Stieglitz
  • Sunny Mabrey (small)
    Sunny Mabrey
    Victoria Gary
  • Will Estes (small)
    Will Estes
    Billy Sweetzer
  • Elden Henson (small)
    Elden Henson
    Joey 'Fudge' Fudgler
  • Sara Rue (small)
    Sara Rue
    Sarah 'Doogs' Doogins
  • Christian Kane (small)
    Christian Kane
    Ryan Roberts
  • Barry Corbin (small)
    Barry Corbin
    Uncle Dennis
  • Liane Balaban (small)
    Liane Balaban
    Heather
  • Victoria Leigh (small)
    Victoria Leigh
    Ashley