"A good man often appears gauche simply because he does not take advantage of the myriad mean little chances of making himself look stylish. Preferring truth to form, he is not constantly at work upon the facade of his appearance"
- Alanis Morissette
About this Quote
In this quote, Alanis Morissette recommends that a really excellent man might stumble upon as uncomfortable or clumsy since he picks not to make the most of the many opportunities to make himself look fashionable. Rather, he values sincerity and authenticity over shallow appearances. He is not continuously concentrated on refining his outward image, however rather on being true to himself. This can be viewed as a rejuvenating and admirable quality in a world where a lot focus is put on outward appearances. Morissette's words remind us that real goodness lies within, and not in the facade we present to the world.
"Life is life - whether in a cat, or dog or man. There is no difference there between a cat or a man. The idea of difference is a human conception for man's own advantage"