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Happiness Quote by Josh Billings

"A good way I know to find happiness, is to not bore a hole to fit the plug"

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Happiness, Billings suggests, isn’t something you engineer by force-fitting yourself into a prefabricated life. The line lands because it borrows the plain hardware logic of 19th-century America and turns it into a moral: don’t drill your own identity into the shape that makes someone else’s “plug” look like it fits. It’s folk wisdom with a grin, the kind that pretends to be modest while smuggling in a sharp critique of social conformity.

The verb choice is the bite. “Bore a hole” implies labor and damage: you don’t gently adjust, you mutilate. And the “plug” is suspiciously external, already made, already approved. Billings is mocking the era’s booming self-improvement culture and its implicit promise that contentment comes from correct sizing-yourself-to-expectations. The joke is that this is literally backward craftsmanship: you don’t destroy the board to flatter the plug; you find the right plug, or you stop pretending you need one at all.

As a comedian working in a period obsessed with respectability, industry, and moral instruction, Billings made his name with misspellings and homespun aphorisms that let audiences laugh while absorbing a mild heresy. The subtext reads modern: happiness isn’t optimized by contortion. It’s found by refusing the quiet violence of “fitting in” when the template was never built for you.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Billings, Josh. (2026, January 16). A good way I know to find happiness, is to not bore a hole to fit the plug. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-way-i-know-to-find-happiness-is-to-not-94170/

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Billings, Josh. "A good way I know to find happiness, is to not bore a hole to fit the plug." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-way-i-know-to-find-happiness-is-to-not-94170/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A good way I know to find happiness, is to not bore a hole to fit the plug." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-good-way-i-know-to-find-happiness-is-to-not-94170/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Josh Billings

Josh Billings (April 12, 1818 - October 14, 1885) was a Comedian from USA.

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