"A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born"
About this Quote
Calling that revealed self “a stranger” is the key move. It’s not triumphant self-discovery; it’s eerie, even unsettling. The subtext is that identity is not fully legible from the inside. We like to imagine continuity - the same “me” making consistent choices - but he frames the psyche as something that can flip under stress, grief, love, or responsibility. That’s a writer’s insight with a pilot’s brutal pragmatism: you don’t know what you’ll do until the sky goes wrong.
“To live is to be slowly born” then turns existence into a long labor, not a static state. Birth here isn’t innocence; it’s emergence, inch by inch, through experience. Context matters: Saint-Exupery wrote under the shadow of early aviation and global conflict, where sudden catastrophe and heightened stakes were ordinary. In that world, character isn’t a résumé trait, it’s an outcome. The sentence lands because it’s both consoling and accusatory: you aren’t finished, and you aren’t in full control of who you’ll become.
Quote Details
| Topic | Reinvention |
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| Source | Attributed to Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, from Wind, Sand and Stars (original French: Terre des hommes), 1939. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Saint-Exupery, Antoine de. (2026, January 15). A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-single-event-can-awaken-within-us-a-stranger-29898/
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Saint-Exupery, Antoine de. "A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-single-event-can-awaken-within-us-a-stranger-29898/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A single event can awaken within us a stranger totally unknown to us. To live is to be slowly born." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-single-event-can-awaken-within-us-a-stranger-29898/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





