"Aggression is inherently destructive of relationships. People and ideologies are pitted against each other, believing that in order to survive, they must destroy the opposition"
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Wheatley’s line reads like a diagnostic from someone who’s spent years watching organizations confuse motion with progress. She doesn’t treat aggression as a personality flaw or a regrettable tactic; she frames it as a relationship-killer with its own internal logic. The key word is “inherently.” It shuts down the usual excuse-making (“sometimes you have to fight”) and insists that the cost is baked into the method, not the motive.
Her real target is the survival story that justifies escalation. “People and ideologies are pitted against each other” implies a stage-managed conflict: someone builds the ring, assigns teams, hands out scripts. Even when no single villain is named, the structure is familiar - competitive institutions, polarized media ecosystems, management cultures that reward dominance. Aggression becomes less an emotion than a system of incentives.
The subtext is that once you accept the premise that survival requires destruction, you stop seeing the other side as a partner in a shared world. You see them as contamination. That shift doesn’t only erode empathy; it narrows imagination. If the only tool is elimination, then negotiation, curiosity, and repair look like weakness. Wheatley, a writer associated with leadership and systems thinking, is warning that “winning” in this frame often means poisoning the conditions that make any future cooperation possible.
Context matters: a late-20th/early-21st-century management world obsessed with competition, plus a political culture increasingly organized around identity and threat. Her intent is less pacifist than practical: if you want durable change, stop feeding the mythology that the only way to live is to make someone else die.
Her real target is the survival story that justifies escalation. “People and ideologies are pitted against each other” implies a stage-managed conflict: someone builds the ring, assigns teams, hands out scripts. Even when no single villain is named, the structure is familiar - competitive institutions, polarized media ecosystems, management cultures that reward dominance. Aggression becomes less an emotion than a system of incentives.
The subtext is that once you accept the premise that survival requires destruction, you stop seeing the other side as a partner in a shared world. You see them as contamination. That shift doesn’t only erode empathy; it narrows imagination. If the only tool is elimination, then negotiation, curiosity, and repair look like weakness. Wheatley, a writer associated with leadership and systems thinking, is warning that “winning” in this frame often means poisoning the conditions that make any future cooperation possible.
Context matters: a late-20th/early-21st-century management world obsessed with competition, plus a political culture increasingly organized around identity and threat. Her intent is less pacifist than practical: if you want durable change, stop feeding the mythology that the only way to live is to make someone else die.
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| Topic | Peace |
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