"All men are difficult"
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"All men are difficult" lands like a throwaway line, which is exactly why it sticks. Sharon Gless, an actress whose career has lived inside mainstream TV’s machinery, isn’t issuing a manifesto; she’s tossing a small grenade into a conversation people usually soften with qualifiers. The bluntness is the point: it mimics the kind of weary, earned generalization you hear after a long run of repeating the same emotional labor with different leading men, lovers, bosses, and gatekeepers.
The intent reads less as misandry than as compression. “Difficult” is doing a lot of work here, neatly vague in a way that lets listeners fill in their own receipts: ego, fragility, entitlement, avoidance, control, the need to be managed. It’s a term women are often branded with in entertainment when they assert boundaries; Gless flips the label back, not with a thesis but with a shrugging verdict. That inversion is the subtextual sting: who gets to be called “difficult,” and who gets protected by the myth of genius, “strong personality,” or “just how he is”?
Context matters because Gless comes from an industry where women’s professionalism is policed and men’s moodiness is romanticized. The line also functions as social code: a warning, a bonding cue, a bit of gallows humor. Its power is in its refusal to soothe. It doesn’t ask to be debated; it dares you to recognize the pattern.
The intent reads less as misandry than as compression. “Difficult” is doing a lot of work here, neatly vague in a way that lets listeners fill in their own receipts: ego, fragility, entitlement, avoidance, control, the need to be managed. It’s a term women are often branded with in entertainment when they assert boundaries; Gless flips the label back, not with a thesis but with a shrugging verdict. That inversion is the subtextual sting: who gets to be called “difficult,” and who gets protected by the myth of genius, “strong personality,” or “just how he is”?
Context matters because Gless comes from an industry where women’s professionalism is policed and men’s moodiness is romanticized. The line also functions as social code: a warning, a bonding cue, a bit of gallows humor. Its power is in its refusal to soothe. It doesn’t ask to be debated; it dares you to recognize the pattern.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sarcastic |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Burn Notice (TV series) (Sharon Gless) modern compilation
Evidence:
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on February 16, 2025 |
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