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Life & Mortality Quote by James Thurber

"All men should strive to learn before they die, what they are running from, and to, and why"

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Thurber slips a knife into the bustle of American self-improvement: the problem isn’t that we fail to chase our dreams, it’s that we’re always chasing something, often at speed, with no idea who’s holding the leash. “All men should strive” sounds like a TED Talk opener, a civic sermon. Then he quietly turns it into a diagnosis. The verb choice is the tell: we’re not “walking,” “seeking,” or “building.” We’re running. Flight, not purpose, is the baseline.

The line works because it frames life as a double escape act. “Running from” hints at fear, shame, boredom, the dull ache of a job or a self; “running to” points to ambition, romance, status, the mirage of arrival. Thurber’s joke is that both directions can be equally unexamined. The punch isn’t that people lack goals; it’s that goals often function as disguises for avoidance. In a culture that prizes motion as virtue, stillness becomes suspect, reflection indulgent. He’s calling that bluff.

Context matters: Thurber wrote in a 20th-century America newly fluent in speed - cars, deadlines, advertising, social climbing - where masculinity (“All men”) was often measured by forward momentum. The sentence lands as humane mockery: before death shuts the door, do the one act our routines postpone. Identify the fear. Name the lure. Admit the “why.” That’s not therapy-speak; it’s Thurber’s comic moralism, using a simple rhythm to expose a complicated dodge.

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Thurber, James. (2026, January 14). All men should strive to learn before they die, what they are running from, and to, and why. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-should-strive-to-learn-before-they-die-62133/

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Thurber, James. "All men should strive to learn before they die, what they are running from, and to, and why." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-should-strive-to-learn-before-they-die-62133/.

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"All men should strive to learn before they die, what they are running from, and to, and why." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/all-men-should-strive-to-learn-before-they-die-62133/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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James Thurber (December 8, 1894 - November 2, 1961) was a Comedian from USA.

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