"All men should strive to learn before they die what they are running from and to and why"
About this Quote
The line works because it frames life as a double escape act. “Running from” hints at fear, shame, boredom, the dull ache of a job or a self; “running to” points to ambition, romance, status, the mirage of arrival. Thurber’s joke is that both directions can be equally unexamined. The punch isn’t that people lack goals; it’s that goals often function as disguises for avoidance. In a culture that prizes motion as virtue, stillness becomes suspect, reflection indulgent. He’s calling that bluff.
Context matters: Thurber wrote in a 20th-century America newly fluent in speed - cars, deadlines, advertising, social climbing - where masculinity (“All men”) was often measured by forward momentum. The sentence lands as humane mockery: before death shuts the door, do the one act our routines postpone. Identify the fear. Name the lure. Admit the “why.” That’s not therapy-speak; it’s Thurber’s comic moralism, using a simple rhythm to expose a complicated dodge.
Quote Details
| Topic | Meaning of Life |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Further Fables for Our Time (James Thurber, 1956)
Evidence: MORAL: All men should strive to learn before they die what they are running from, and to, and why. (Page 174 (fable: "The Shore and the Sea"; the line is the MORAL)). This wording appears as the closing moral of Thurber’s fable "The Shore and the Sea" in Further Fables for Our Time. A page-scanned/print-equivalent page marker shows it on [Pg 174] in the Faded Page (Distributed Proofreaders Canada) transcription of the 1956 book. I did not find credible evidence (in primary-source form) that it appeared earlier in a speech/interview; the earliest attributable primary publication located is the 1956 book publication. Other candidates (1) Coach Yourself: A Motivational Guide for Coaches and Leaders (Dan Spainhour, 2007) compilation95.0% ... All men should strive to learn before they die , what they are running from , and to , and why . James Thurber : ... |
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