"And so we were asleep there in San Diego. And our pilot called us. And his brother was on one of the other planes. And when he was leaving the airport, he saw in his rear view mirror that there was an explosion"
About this Quote
The specifics are doing the emotional heavy lifting. "Asleep there in San Diego" sets the scene in ordinary, temporary safety. Then the chain of relations tightens: pilot, then brother, then "one of the other planes". It’s a quiet map of a traveling community, where colleagues are family by proximity and routine. The rearview mirror detail is brutal because it’s cinematic without trying to be: the last glimpse as someone exits the frame, the past literally catching fire behind you. No moral, no flourish, just the image.
Context matters: McEntire was speaking about the 1991 plane crash that killed members of her band and crew. The quote’s intent isn’t to dramatize the loss but to honor the reality of how it entered her life - indirectly, suddenly, through someone else’s eyes. That restraint is the subtext: when you’ve lived inside a spectacle, you learn to narrate it without feeding it. The horror stays intact because she won’t pretty it up.
Quote Details
| Topic | Travel |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McEntire, Reba. (n.d.). And so we were asleep there in San Diego. And our pilot called us. And his brother was on one of the other planes. And when he was leaving the airport, he saw in his rear view mirror that there was an explosion. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-so-we-were-asleep-there-in-san-diego-and-our-96853/
Chicago Style
McEntire, Reba. "And so we were asleep there in San Diego. And our pilot called us. And his brother was on one of the other planes. And when he was leaving the airport, he saw in his rear view mirror that there was an explosion." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-so-we-were-asleep-there-in-san-diego-and-our-96853/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"And so we were asleep there in San Diego. And our pilot called us. And his brother was on one of the other planes. And when he was leaving the airport, he saw in his rear view mirror that there was an explosion." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-so-we-were-asleep-there-in-san-diego-and-our-96853/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.


