"Be kind to people on the way up - you'll meet them again on your way down"
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Fame, in Jimmy Durante's hands, is less a rocket ship than a crowded elevator that keeps stopping on every floor. "Be kind to people on the way up - you'll meet them again on your way down" lands because it treats ambition as a social ecosystem, not a solo sprint. The line isn't pleading for sainthood; it's offering a comedian's practical theology: today's assistant, stagehand, club booker, or rival could be tomorrow's gatekeeper, critic, or lifeline. Kindness becomes self-interest with a conscience.
Durante came up through vaudeville, nightclubs, radio, and early Hollywood - industries built on reputations traded like currency. In that world, your talent gets you in the room, but your demeanor decides whether the room stays open. The quote's sly bite is in its certainty about "down". Not "if" you fall, but "when". It's a fatalism that reads as wisdom because it matches how creative careers actually behave: cyclical, fickle, and often unfair. The punchline is existential: you are not exempt from gravity.
Subtextually, it's also a warning against the tiny cruelties people commit when they feel newly powerful: the cold shoulder, the name-forgetting, the performative indifference. Durante frames those as future humiliation, which is funny because it flips the fantasy of status. The moral isn't abstract decency; it's memory. In a culture obsessed with "networking", he strips the euphemism away: relationships are real, and they keep receipts.
Durante came up through vaudeville, nightclubs, radio, and early Hollywood - industries built on reputations traded like currency. In that world, your talent gets you in the room, but your demeanor decides whether the room stays open. The quote's sly bite is in its certainty about "down". Not "if" you fall, but "when". It's a fatalism that reads as wisdom because it matches how creative careers actually behave: cyclical, fickle, and often unfair. The punchline is existential: you are not exempt from gravity.
Subtextually, it's also a warning against the tiny cruelties people commit when they feel newly powerful: the cold shoulder, the name-forgetting, the performative indifference. Durante frames those as future humiliation, which is funny because it flips the fantasy of status. The moral isn't abstract decency; it's memory. In a culture obsessed with "networking", he strips the euphemism away: relationships are real, and they keep receipts.
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| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
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