"Before high school ended, I started applying to college. It really wasn't even a choice because of the brainwashing of my parents"
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A throwaway line with a grenade taped to it: Tatyana Ali frames “applying to college” as automatic, then undercuts the supposed normalcy with “brainwashing.” That jolt is the point. For a lot of middle-class American kids, especially those raised by immigrant parents or parents who see education as the only reliable insurance policy, college isn’t presented as an option so much as the air in the room. Ali’s phrasing captures how that certainty can feel less like guidance and more like programming.
“Before high school ended” emphasizes how early the conveyor belt starts moving: deadlines, prestige, the subtle panic that if you’re not planning ahead you’re falling behind. Then comes the sly confession: “It really wasn’t even a choice.” She’s not arguing that college is bad; she’s admitting that autonomy is often a luxury you only recognize after the fact.
“Brainwashing” is doing double duty. It’s hyperbole with bite, a pop-culture word that lets her critique parental pressure without sounding like she’s writing a manifesto. It also carries affection and resentment in the same breath: parents as loving strategists and relentless enforcers. Coming from an actress who grew up in public view, the line gains extra tension. Child performers are already managed, scheduled, and optimized; adding the college track makes the whole adolescence feel like a curated project. The subtext isn’t just about school. It’s about who gets to author your life story before you’re old enough to hold the pen.
“Before high school ended” emphasizes how early the conveyor belt starts moving: deadlines, prestige, the subtle panic that if you’re not planning ahead you’re falling behind. Then comes the sly confession: “It really wasn’t even a choice.” She’s not arguing that college is bad; she’s admitting that autonomy is often a luxury you only recognize after the fact.
“Brainwashing” is doing double duty. It’s hyperbole with bite, a pop-culture word that lets her critique parental pressure without sounding like she’s writing a manifesto. It also carries affection and resentment in the same breath: parents as loving strategists and relentless enforcers. Coming from an actress who grew up in public view, the line gains extra tension. Child performers are already managed, scheduled, and optimized; adding the college track makes the whole adolescence feel like a curated project. The subtext isn’t just about school. It’s about who gets to author your life story before you’re old enough to hold the pen.
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