"Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife"
About this Quote
The joke works because it weaponizes the audience’s expectation of wholesome uplift. You’re primed for gratitude; you get suspicion. By stacking "a woman" and "his wife" into a comic hierarchy, Groucho implies the woman credited for the man’s success is not necessarily the one society recognizes. The wife becomes both obstacle and alibi: the figure officially "behind" him, socially legitimizing his image, while another woman is suggested to be the real engine, muse, or accomplice. It’s a one-line diagram of hypocrisy.
Context matters: Groucho’s era sold marriage as a cornerstone of American virtue while quietly tolerating a wide range of male misbehavior, especially for powerful men. His punchline doesn’t just mock the man; it mocks the cultural script that turns women into supporting props in a male success story. At the same time, it isn’t a feminist banner so much as a cynical snapshot: everyone is reduced to a role in a farce where admiration, desire, and social optics collide.
It’s Groucho at his sharpest: dismantling sentimentality with a grin that knows exactly what it’s doing.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: Quotes: The Famous and Not so Famous (Terence M. Dorn Ph.D., 2021) modern compilationISBN: 9781662447952 · ID: ptZSEAAAQBAJ
Evidence:
... Behind every successful man is a woman , behind her is his wife . - Groucho Marx , 1890-1977 I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member.— Groucho Marx The secret of life is honesty and fair dealing . If you can fake that ... |
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Marx, Groucho. (2026, February 9). Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/behind-every-successful-man-is-a-woman-behind-her-31378/
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"Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/behind-every-successful-man-is-a-woman-behind-her-31378/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












