"Cats, for the most part, seem indifferent to human activities that do not revolve around their needs and wants. They all but roll their eyes at the owners who expect their cats to do things for them"
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Cats are the perfect little rebuke to the human habit of imagining we’re the main character in every room. Joyce Jillson’s line lands because it treats feline “indifference” as a social fact, not a cute quirk: cats don’t just ignore us, they decline our premise. The eye-roll image is doing a lot of work. It’s not really about cats having attitude; it’s about puncturing the owner’s entitlement - the belief that affection is a kind of employment contract.
Jillson, a celebrity and astrologer who traded in the theater of personality, understands the domestic stage. Pet ownership often comes wrapped in a soft-focus fantasy of loyalty and service (the dog script), and cats refuse to audition for it. The “needs and wants” framing flips the usual hierarchy: humans like to narrate themselves as caretakers, but the cat’s gaze suggests we’re staff. That inversion is funny because it’s true often enough to sting.
The context here is late-20th-century pop psychology and celebrity culture, where relationships - even with animals - get interpreted as mirrors for the self. Jillson uses the cat to mock a broader cultural expectation: that other beings should validate our schedules, moods, and desire to be needed. Her intent isn’t anti-cat or anti-owner; it’s anti-delusion. The cat becomes an emblem of boundaries, the rare household presence that won’t flatter you just because you’ve paid for the food.
Jillson, a celebrity and astrologer who traded in the theater of personality, understands the domestic stage. Pet ownership often comes wrapped in a soft-focus fantasy of loyalty and service (the dog script), and cats refuse to audition for it. The “needs and wants” framing flips the usual hierarchy: humans like to narrate themselves as caretakers, but the cat’s gaze suggests we’re staff. That inversion is funny because it’s true often enough to sting.
The context here is late-20th-century pop psychology and celebrity culture, where relationships - even with animals - get interpreted as mirrors for the self. Jillson uses the cat to mock a broader cultural expectation: that other beings should validate our schedules, moods, and desire to be needed. Her intent isn’t anti-cat or anti-owner; it’s anti-delusion. The cat becomes an emblem of boundaries, the rare household presence that won’t flatter you just because you’ve paid for the food.
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