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Motherhood Quote by Tim Allen

"Dad needs to show an incredible amount of respect and humor and friendship toward his mate so the kids understand their parents are sexy, they're fun, they do things together, they're best friends. Kids learn by example. If I respect Mom, they're going to respect Mom"

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Tim Allen smuggles an old-school marital ethic into a very ’90s-to-now vocabulary: sexy, fun, best friends. That mash-up is the point. He’s not pitching Father Knows Best piety; he’s pitching domestic charisma. “Dad needs to show” lands like a sitcom premise with a moral spine: fatherhood isn’t just provision and discipline, it’s performance. Not fake performance, but visible, everyday proof that love is active, playful, and public.

The subtext is about power and modeling. Allen frames respect for the mother as something kids don’t automatically grant; it’s taught through what Dad signals is normal. The line “If I respect Mom, they’re going to respect Mom” has a comedian’s blunt causality, but it also reveals a hierarchy he’s trying to reroute. He’s acknowledging that kids take cues from the dominant energy in the room. If Dad undercuts Mom with sarcasm or distance, the children absorb that contempt like background noise. If Dad treats her as a peer and a partner, that becomes the household’s default setting.

The “sexy” bit is doing cultural work. It pushes against the common American storyline where parenting kills romance and spouses become logistics managers. Allen insists the romantic relationship is not separate from raising kids; it’s the template. Coming from a comedian known for masculine posturing and suburban riffs, it reads like a corrective: masculinity that’s secure enough to be affectionate, playful, and visibly respectful without feeling “whipped.” That’s the joke’s quiet seriousness.

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Allen, Tim. (2026, January 15). Dad needs to show an incredible amount of respect and humor and friendship toward his mate so the kids understand their parents are sexy, they're fun, they do things together, they're best friends. Kids learn by example. If I respect Mom, they're going to respect Mom. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dad-needs-to-show-an-incredible-amount-of-respect-168585/

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Allen, Tim. "Dad needs to show an incredible amount of respect and humor and friendship toward his mate so the kids understand their parents are sexy, they're fun, they do things together, they're best friends. Kids learn by example. If I respect Mom, they're going to respect Mom." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dad-needs-to-show-an-incredible-amount-of-respect-168585/.

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"Dad needs to show an incredible amount of respect and humor and friendship toward his mate so the kids understand their parents are sexy, they're fun, they do things together, they're best friends. Kids learn by example. If I respect Mom, they're going to respect Mom." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/dad-needs-to-show-an-incredible-amount-of-respect-168585/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Tim Allen (born June 13, 1953) is a Comedian from USA.

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