"Elegance is innate. It has nothing to do with being well dressed. Elegance is refusal"
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The knife twist is the last sentence: “Elegance is refusal.” Refusal of what? Of overstatement, of trend-chasing, of the anxious yes that turns style into compliance. It’s a philosophy of editing, which is Vreeland’s real métier. Editors don’t create from nothing; they decide what doesn’t make the cut. Elegance, in her framing, is the same skill applied to the self: the discipline to choose a silhouette, a gesture, a life, and shut the door on the rest.
There’s also a class-coded subtext, and Vreeland knew it. Refusal is easiest when you’re not afraid of missing out, when status gives you the freedom to ignore status signals. But that’s precisely why the line lands: it exposes elegance as power expressed through restraint. Not self-denial for virtue points, but the confidence to be unpersuadable. In Vreeland’s world, the most stylish word isn’t “more.” It’s “no.”
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vreeland, Diana. (2026, January 16). Elegance is innate. It has nothing to do with being well dressed. Elegance is refusal. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/elegance-is-innate-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-110717/
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Vreeland, Diana. "Elegance is innate. It has nothing to do with being well dressed. Elegance is refusal." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/elegance-is-innate-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-110717/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Elegance is innate. It has nothing to do with being well dressed. Elegance is refusal." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/elegance-is-innate-it-has-nothing-to-do-with-110717/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







