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Daily Inspiration Quote by Devon Aoki

"Everyone has their own insecurities, regardless of how you look or how people perceive you, but sometimes people give their insecurities too much power. Defining beauty is simply a matter of opinion. For me, real beauty has very little to do with the structure of someone's face or body"

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Aoki is doing something quietly radical for a model: she’s decentering the very currency that built her career. The line opens with a democratizing move - “everyone” - that flattens the hierarchy of who’s “allowed” to feel insecure. In an industry that treats confidence as a kind of styling trick and beauty as an apparent fact, she reframes insecurity as normal and, more importantly, optional. The key verb isn’t “have” but “give”: insecurities don’t rule you; you delegate power to them.

Her next pivot, “Defining beauty is simply a matter of opinion,” sounds almost too mild until you remember the context. Modeling sells the fiction that beauty is measurable: cheekbones, waistlines, symmetry, the implied math of the camera. Calling it “opinion” punctures the authority of that math. It’s not a lecture; it’s a disarm. She’s not attacking beauty standards head-on so much as revealing their flimsy legal foundation: they only work if we treat them like laws rather than tastes.

Then she lands the real subtext: “real beauty” is not located in “structure.” That word choice matters - it’s architectural, clinical, the language of assessment. Aoki’s resisting the reduction of a person into parts that can be appraised, bought, and compared. Coming from someone whose face and body were literally her job, the statement reads less like a platitude and more like an insider’s tell: the system is persuasive, but it’s not true.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Aoki, Devon. (2026, January 17). Everyone has their own insecurities, regardless of how you look or how people perceive you, but sometimes people give their insecurities too much power. Defining beauty is simply a matter of opinion. For me, real beauty has very little to do with the structure of someone's face or body. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-has-their-own-insecurities-regardless-of-81875/

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Aoki, Devon. "Everyone has their own insecurities, regardless of how you look or how people perceive you, but sometimes people give their insecurities too much power. Defining beauty is simply a matter of opinion. For me, real beauty has very little to do with the structure of someone's face or body." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-has-their-own-insecurities-regardless-of-81875/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everyone has their own insecurities, regardless of how you look or how people perceive you, but sometimes people give their insecurities too much power. Defining beauty is simply a matter of opinion. For me, real beauty has very little to do with the structure of someone's face or body." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-has-their-own-insecurities-regardless-of-81875/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Devon Aoki

Devon Aoki (born August 10, 1982) is a Model from USA.

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