"Everything we do in life is based on fear, especially love"
About this Quote
The intent isn’t to sneer at love but to puncture its self-mythology. Fear of being alone, fear of not mattering, fear of mortality, fear of rejection - love can be the socially acceptable costume those anxieties wear. In Brooks’s hands, that observation doesn’t become therapy-speak; it becomes a comic accusation. You’re not noble, you’re nervous. The laughter is the permission slip to admit it.
Context matters: Brooks is a comedian who built a career mining the tension between dread and desire, from wartime satire to romantic farce. His comedy understands that fear is a reliable engine: it keeps people moving, buying, committing, proposing. By pairing "fear" with "especially love", he also hints at love’s coercive edge - how devotion can curdle into control, how romance can become a hedge against chaos. It’s cynical, yes, but it’s also clarifying: if fear is in the driver’s seat, the punchline is a mirror.
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| Topic | Fear |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brooks, Mel. (2026, January 18). Everything we do in life is based on fear, especially love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-we-do-in-life-is-based-on-fear-807/
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Brooks, Mel. "Everything we do in life is based on fear, especially love." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-we-do-in-life-is-based-on-fear-807/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everything we do in life is based on fear, especially love." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-we-do-in-life-is-based-on-fear-807/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.












