"Exeter was, I suspect, more crucial in my life than in the lives of most members of my class, and conceivably, than in the lives of almost anyone else who ever attended the school"
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The subtext is obsession dressed as reflection. Knowles isn’t merely reminiscing about Exeter; he’s signaling that the school became a moral and psychological weather system he never left. In A Separate Peace, Exeter (thinly fictionalized as Devon) is where adolescence hardens into something like ideology: competition masquerading as friendship, innocence curdling into self-knowledge, private guilt taking on the gravity of public war. Saying Exeter mattered more to him than to anyone else is also a way of implying that his classmates could afford to move on. He couldn’t, because the emotional injury or revelation incubated there was uniquely generative.
Context matters: Knowles is writing out of the mid-century American faith in elite institutions as character factories, then quietly puncturing it. The school is not just an alma mater; it’s an engine that produces narratives about merit, masculinity, and belonging. His claim of exceptional impact reads like gratitude and indictment at once: Exeter gave him his defining material, and it also marked him so deeply he had to spend a career rewriting his way back out.
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Knowles, John. (2026, January 16). Exeter was, I suspect, more crucial in my life than in the lives of most members of my class, and conceivably, than in the lives of almost anyone else who ever attended the school. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/exeter-was-i-suspect-more-crucial-in-my-life-than-107081/
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Knowles, John. "Exeter was, I suspect, more crucial in my life than in the lives of most members of my class, and conceivably, than in the lives of almost anyone else who ever attended the school." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/exeter-was-i-suspect-more-crucial-in-my-life-than-107081/.
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"Exeter was, I suspect, more crucial in my life than in the lives of most members of my class, and conceivably, than in the lives of almost anyone else who ever attended the school." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/exeter-was-i-suspect-more-crucial-in-my-life-than-107081/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.


