"Experience is what you have after you've forgotten her name"
About this Quote
Berle, a vaudeville-to-television lifer, understood how American masculinity often tried to launder regret through humor. "Her name" does double duty: it's one woman and every woman, a stand-in for the romances that were intense enough to scar but not tender enough to preserve. Forgetting isn't just absentmindedness here; it's an indictment. Experience becomes the trophy of emotional negligence, the thing you get when you've traded intimacy for repetition.
The intent is classic Berle: make an audience laugh by admitting what they're not supposed to confess. Underneath the wisecrack is a critique of the way people narrate their past as accomplishment. We praise experience in resumes and barroom talk as if it proves competence. Berle punctures that self-mythology. If experience is what remains after you can't even recall the name, then "experience" is less mastery than amnesia with good PR.
Context matters: mid-century comedy thrived on the friction between respectable surfaces and private mess. Berle turns that friction into a one-liner that stings a little because it recognizes how easily we confuse being seasoned with being numb.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Berle, Milton. (2026, January 16). Experience is what you have after you've forgotten her name. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-what-you-have-after-youve-forgotten-104734/
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Berle, Milton. "Experience is what you have after you've forgotten her name." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-what-you-have-after-youve-forgotten-104734/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Experience is what you have after you've forgotten her name." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-what-you-have-after-youve-forgotten-104734/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










