"Grandchildren are God's way of compensating us for growing old"
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The subtext is less about grandchildren than about the cultural problem of growing old in public. In a society that markets youth as virtue, elders are expected to justify their continued presence with purpose, warmth, and a photogenic role in the family story. Grandchildren become the socially acceptable reward for endurance: proof you didn’t just survive adulthood, you produced legacy. There’s also a gentle repositioning of power. Parents do the hard, high-stakes labor; grandparents get the “compensation,” meaning the pleasure without the full penalty, a second chance to be present without being responsible.
As an editor, Waldrip is speaking in a polished, aphoristic tradition: short, quotable, sentiment with a little steel in it. It’s comfort, yes, but it’s also a cultural script for making peace with decline by reframing it as arrival.
Quote Details
| Topic | Grandparents |
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| Source | Later attribution: Greatest Jokes of the Century Book 12 (Thomas F. Shubnell, 2008) modern compilationISBN: 9781440418983 · ID: EI4JsSYyU1AC
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... Grandchildren are God's way of compensating us for growing old . ~ Mary H. Waldrip You do not really understand something unless you can explain it to your grandmother . ~ Proverb The best baby - sitters , of course , are the baby's ... |
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