"He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself is mightier still"

True power is often perceived as the ability to bend others to one’s will, to exert influence or command authority over people or circumstances. However, in the Taoist worldview exemplified by Lao Tzu, such external power is secondary compared to the internal mastery that comes from self-control and self-understanding. Leadership over others is certainly consequential, but it is fundamentally unstable, it depends on the acquiescence, fear, or respect of others, all of which can change or be lost. The person who truly learns to govern themselves, to regulate their impulses, desires, and emotions, possesses a strength that is profound and enduring.

Self-mastery encompasses awareness, recognizing one’s weaknesses, strengths, and habitual patterns. It involves cultivating discipline, enabling the individual to act thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. Rather than being swept up in anger, greed, pride, or desire, the self-mastered person can acknowledge these forces and choose a wiser path. This uncommon self-possession grants a kind of unshakable tranquility, allowing a person to remain centered even amidst chaos or adversity.

Comparatively, the power wielded over others is often accompanied by anxiety or the risk of being overthrown or challenged. It can bring external successes, yet frequently at the expense of internal peace. In contrast, the might that comes from self-mastery is invisible to others but felt deeply within. It enables compassion, patience, and resilience. Such a person, unclouded by inner turmoil, is less likely to be manipulated by others, and more able to inspire genuine respect, rather than mere obedience.

Ultimately, conquering oneself, overcoming internal flaws and limitations, requires more courage and persistence than dominating others. This inner victory creates a foundation for true wisdom and influence, as a self-mastered person may understand and uplift others, not through force, but by the compelling example of their own harmonious life.