"I am certainly not an authority on love because there are no authorities on love, just those who've had luck with it and those who haven't"
About this Quote
The line hinges on a sly downgrade: love isn’t a skill you master so much as a circumstance you survive. “Luck” does heavy lifting here. It reframes breakups and bad matches not as personal failure but as a bad draw, which is comforting and slightly cynical. In the same breath, it also undercuts the moral hierarchy people build around romance - the smug coupled-up versus the allegedly defective single. Cosby reduces that difference to fortune, not virtue.
As a comedian, he’s also doing crowd management. The audience can laugh without feeling indicted because the joke distributes blame evenly and abstracts it into randomness. The subtext is that love resists tidy narratives, and anyone selling certainty is selling something else.
Context complicates the reception. Coming from Cosby, a figure whose public image later collapsed under serious accusations and convictions later overturned, the line now reads with an unintended aftertaste: a man insisting no one can be an “authority” on love while having wielded enormous cultural authority on family and decency. The joke survives, but its innocence doesn’t.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cosby, Bill. (2026, January 15). I am certainly not an authority on love because there are no authorities on love, just those who've had luck with it and those who haven't. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-certainly-not-an-authority-on-love-because-14305/
Chicago Style
Cosby, Bill. "I am certainly not an authority on love because there are no authorities on love, just those who've had luck with it and those who haven't." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-certainly-not-an-authority-on-love-because-14305/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am certainly not an authority on love because there are no authorities on love, just those who've had luck with it and those who haven't." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-certainly-not-an-authority-on-love-because-14305/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













