"I am six feet tall. I am not supposed to be afraid"
About this Quote
The line begins with a measurement and ends with a mandate. A simple fact about the body turns, almost without pause, into a rule about the soul. That pivot from height to obligation exposes how easily culture fuses physical stature with moral expectations. Tallness becomes shorthand for strength, and strength is equated with fearlessness. The phrase supposed to signals that this is not a law of nature, but a script learned and enforced by others and internalized as self-talk.
What makes the statement compelling is the pressure it reveals. The speaker is not proclaiming invincibility; he is confessing the burden of an image. Fear is universal, a physiological and existential constant, indifferent to how high one stands above the ground. Linking courage to size does not abolish fear; it pushes it underground, where it turns into shame. The self scolds itself: someone like me should not feel this. That distance between experience and expectation can become more frightening than the original threat.
Courage, as many of Keith Miller’s reflections on honest living suggest, is not the absence of fear but the willingness to tell the truth about it and move anyway. The sentence, read that way, is both diagnosis and invitation. It identifies the costume of invulnerability that certain men are told to wear and hints at the cost of wearing it. When the performer names the costume out loud, the costume begins to loosen.
There is also an irony hidden in the grammar. I am six feet tall describes a body; I am not supposed to be afraid prescribes a behavior. Identity slides from description into duty. Miller’s line challenges that slide. It asks us to separate who we are from what other people think that should mean, and to measure courage not by inches but by the honesty with which we face fear, admit it, and choose our next step despite it.
What makes the statement compelling is the pressure it reveals. The speaker is not proclaiming invincibility; he is confessing the burden of an image. Fear is universal, a physiological and existential constant, indifferent to how high one stands above the ground. Linking courage to size does not abolish fear; it pushes it underground, where it turns into shame. The self scolds itself: someone like me should not feel this. That distance between experience and expectation can become more frightening than the original threat.
Courage, as many of Keith Miller’s reflections on honest living suggest, is not the absence of fear but the willingness to tell the truth about it and move anyway. The sentence, read that way, is both diagnosis and invitation. It identifies the costume of invulnerability that certain men are told to wear and hints at the cost of wearing it. When the performer names the costume out loud, the costume begins to loosen.
There is also an irony hidden in the grammar. I am six feet tall describes a body; I am not supposed to be afraid prescribes a behavior. Identity slides from description into duty. Miller’s line challenges that slide. It asks us to separate who we are from what other people think that should mean, and to measure courage not by inches but by the honesty with which we face fear, admit it, and choose our next step despite it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Fear |
|---|
More Quotes by Keith
Add to List







