"I can always tell when the mother in law's coming to stay; the mice throw themselves on the traps"
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That’s Dawson’s particular comic gift: taking working-class, living-room anxieties and sharpening them into a brutal, clean image. The trap is doing double duty. It’s the literal mousetrap under the sink and the metaphorical trap of hospitality obligations: the forced politeness, the territorial reshuffling, the sense that your home stops being yours. The mother-in-law never has to speak; she’s rendered as an atmospheric pressure system, a presence that reorganizes the ecosystem on arrival. By making animals the canaries in the coal mine, Dawson implies what the family can’t say out loud without seeming ungrateful or cruel.
Context matters: British stand-up of Dawson’s era mined marriage as a battleground of small humiliations, with the mother-in-law as a stock villain audiences instantly recognized. Today the stereotype reads meaner, even lazy, but the line still lands because the mechanism is immaculate: a single, vivid exaggeration that reveals how resentment often travels in households - indirectly, through jokes that let you confess what manners forbid.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dawson, Les. (2026, January 18). I can always tell when the mother in law's coming to stay; the mice throw themselves on the traps. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-always-tell-when-the-mother-in-laws-coming-4898/
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Dawson, Les. "I can always tell when the mother in law's coming to stay; the mice throw themselves on the traps." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-always-tell-when-the-mother-in-laws-coming-4898/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I can always tell when the mother in law's coming to stay; the mice throw themselves on the traps." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-can-always-tell-when-the-mother-in-laws-coming-4898/. Accessed 4 Mar. 2026.












