"I didn't want my parents to support me. I wanted to prove that I could do it by myself"
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The phrasing is bluntly personal, almost defensive, and thats the point. "I didn't want" sets a boundary; "I wanted to prove" reveals the emotional engine. This is less about cash than about credibility. In entertainment, where nepotism rumors and "industry plant" accusations shadow even genuine talent, self-funding becomes a kind of reputational armor. Doing it "by myself" isnt merely self-reliance; its a way to preempt the doubt that follows artists, especially women, who are too quickly treated as curated products rather than authors of their own trajectory.
There is also a quieter subtext: parental support can carry expectations about safety, respectability, and timelines. Vester positions herself against that domestic risk-management. The quote works because it captures the paradox at the heart of chasing visibility for a living: you need help to get in the room, but you need independence to be taken seriously once youre there.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vester, Linda. (2026, January 18). I didn't want my parents to support me. I wanted to prove that I could do it by myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-want-my-parents-to-support-me-i-wanted-to-19125/
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Vester, Linda. "I didn't want my parents to support me. I wanted to prove that I could do it by myself." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-want-my-parents-to-support-me-i-wanted-to-19125/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I didn't want my parents to support me. I wanted to prove that I could do it by myself." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-didnt-want-my-parents-to-support-me-i-wanted-to-19125/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





