"I don't know how to put it, but yet you know we have so many people who the way they look at life, the way they work depends on what happens, us winning or losing. It's kind of crazy. So, I kind of got caught up in that, I'm gonna try to stay away from that"
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The line “I don’t know how to put it” is doing real work. It’s a rough, unvarnished preface that signals this isn’t a rehearsed press-conference sermon about “perspective.” Ditka isn’t trying to sound enlightened; he’s trying to say something honest without insulting the very people who fuel the machine. The subtext is a critique of sports as emotional infrastructure: teams don’t just entertain, they organize community mood, identity, and often masculinity itself. When he says “us winning or losing,” he slips into collective ownership, acknowledging how a franchise becomes a shared “we,” even for people with no control over the result.
Context matters: Ditka coached in Chicago, a market where football is practically a local language and losing seasons can feel like civic humiliation. His final pivot - “I’m gonna try to stay away from that” - isn’t a call for fans to detach; it’s a survival tactic. It’s the coach recognizing that when everything is outcome-based, the job stops being hard and starts being corrosive.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ditka, Mike. (2026, January 17). I don't know how to put it, but yet you know we have so many people who the way they look at life, the way they work depends on what happens, us winning or losing. It's kind of crazy. So, I kind of got caught up in that, I'm gonna try to stay away from that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-how-to-put-it-but-yet-you-know-we-27466/
Chicago Style
Ditka, Mike. "I don't know how to put it, but yet you know we have so many people who the way they look at life, the way they work depends on what happens, us winning or losing. It's kind of crazy. So, I kind of got caught up in that, I'm gonna try to stay away from that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-how-to-put-it-but-yet-you-know-we-27466/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't know how to put it, but yet you know we have so many people who the way they look at life, the way they work depends on what happens, us winning or losing. It's kind of crazy. So, I kind of got caught up in that, I'm gonna try to stay away from that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-know-how-to-put-it-but-yet-you-know-we-27466/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








