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Education Quote by Fiona Apple

"I don't want to give any advice to a 19-year-old, because I want a 19-year-old to make mistakes and learn from them. Make mistakes, make mistakes, make mistakes. Just make sure they're your mistakes"

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Fiona Apple’s refusal to “give any advice” is a sly inversion of the whole celebrity-wisdom economy. A famous adult is expected to distill life into a neat takeaway, preferably tweet-sized. Apple does the opposite: she withholds instruction as an act of respect. The line sounds casual, but it’s a firm boundary against the culture that treats young people as optimization projects and older artists as motivational speakers.

The repetition - “Make mistakes, make mistakes, make mistakes” - works like a drum hit. It’s not just emphasis; it’s permission. Apple frames error not as a detour from the “right” path but as the path itself, the only route to actual self-knowledge. The subtext is about agency: you’re allowed to be messy, but you’re not allowed to outsource your mess.

“Just make sure they’re your mistakes” is the knife turn. It’s a warning against living in someone else’s script: parents’ expectations, peer pressure, algorithmic trends, even well-meaning mentorship. Apple isn’t romanticizing self-destruction; she’s drawing a line between experiential learning and borrowed damage. There’s a quiet critique of adults who project their regrets onto teenagers, trying to pre-edit their lives into safety. Apple’s artistry has always been about resisting coercion - emotional, sexual, commercial - and this quote carries that same ethos: autonomy over polish, lived truth over performative “growth.”

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TopicLearning from Mistakes
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Apple, Fiona. (2026, January 16). I don't want to give any advice to a 19-year-old, because I want a 19-year-old to make mistakes and learn from them. Make mistakes, make mistakes, make mistakes. Just make sure they're your mistakes. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-give-any-advice-to-a-19-year-old-84074/

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Apple, Fiona. "I don't want to give any advice to a 19-year-old, because I want a 19-year-old to make mistakes and learn from them. Make mistakes, make mistakes, make mistakes. Just make sure they're your mistakes." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-give-any-advice-to-a-19-year-old-84074/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I don't want to give any advice to a 19-year-old, because I want a 19-year-old to make mistakes and learn from them. Make mistakes, make mistakes, make mistakes. Just make sure they're your mistakes." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-dont-want-to-give-any-advice-to-a-19-year-old-84074/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Fiona Apple (born September 13, 1977) is a Musician from USA.

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