"I grew up with a mother who, every time she saw something, would say, I'm going to look that up. And I've become that person - I've become the reference-book person"
About this Quote
The subtext is generational and specifically maternal. Saunders frames her mother not as a sainted influence but as a model of behavior observed at close range: "every time she saw something". That repetition gives the habit its comic extremity, the sense of someone living with a permanent open tab in their mind. Then she delivers the quiet twist: she didn’t merely admire it; she caught it. "I’ve become that person" is funny because it’s half-confession, half surrender to inevitability.
Contextually, it also nods to a cultural shift. The old "look that up" meant books, libraries, time, effort - an ethic of attentiveness. Saunders keeps the phrase "reference-book" even though we now outsource that role to phones, because she’s really praising a posture toward the world: treating ignorance as temporary, treating curiosity as a social act. For a comedian, that’s craft as much as personality - jokes are built by people who can’t stop noticing, and who refuse to let a strange detail go unexplained.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Saunders, Jennifer. (2026, January 17). I grew up with a mother who, every time she saw something, would say, I'm going to look that up. And I've become that person - I've become the reference-book person. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-a-mother-who-every-time-she-saw-80287/
Chicago Style
Saunders, Jennifer. "I grew up with a mother who, every time she saw something, would say, I'm going to look that up. And I've become that person - I've become the reference-book person." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-a-mother-who-every-time-she-saw-80287/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I grew up with a mother who, every time she saw something, would say, I'm going to look that up. And I've become that person - I've become the reference-book person." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-grew-up-with-a-mother-who-every-time-she-saw-80287/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




