"I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line"
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“Love yourself first” can sound like self-help wallpaper, but Ball’s version carries subtext sharpened by her era and her job. As a woman who built an empire in a system designed to treat women as interchangeable, self-love isn’t indulgence; it’s infrastructure. The “first” matters: before the audience, before the marriage, before the studio’s expectations, there has to be an internal baseline that doesn’t fluctuate with applause. Comedians are professionally vulnerable - their value is measured in laughs per minute - so anchoring in self-regard is a way to resist becoming a human weather vane.
And “everything else falls into line” is classic Lucy optimism with a realist’s edge. It’s not a promise that life turns easy; it’s a claim about alignment. When you’re not bargaining for your own worth, choices get cleaner: boundaries harden, work gets less frantic, relationships stop being auditions. The line is simple because it has to be repeatable, like a cue you can hit under pressure. That’s Ball’s real sermon: self-love as stagecraft for surviving the world.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ball, Lucille. (2026, January 15). I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-an-everyday-religion-that-works-for-me-520/
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Ball, Lucille. "I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-an-everyday-religion-that-works-for-me-520/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-an-everyday-religion-that-works-for-me-520/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.








