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Love Quote by Lucille Ball

"I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line"

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An “everyday religion” from Lucille Ball lands like a quiet punchline: it demotes doctrine and elevates practice. Ball isn’t selling enlightenment; she’s proposing a routine sturdy enough to survive the chaos of ordinary life. Coming from a comedian whose genius depended on control inside manufactured disaster, the phrase reads as both credo and coping mechanism. Her spirituality is pragmatic, not mystical: something you can do on a Tuesday.

“Love yourself first” can sound like self-help wallpaper, but Ball’s version carries subtext sharpened by her era and her job. As a woman who built an empire in a system designed to treat women as interchangeable, self-love isn’t indulgence; it’s infrastructure. The “first” matters: before the audience, before the marriage, before the studio’s expectations, there has to be an internal baseline that doesn’t fluctuate with applause. Comedians are professionally vulnerable - their value is measured in laughs per minute - so anchoring in self-regard is a way to resist becoming a human weather vane.

And “everything else falls into line” is classic Lucy optimism with a realist’s edge. It’s not a promise that life turns easy; it’s a claim about alignment. When you’re not bargaining for your own worth, choices get cleaner: boundaries harden, work gets less frantic, relationships stop being auditions. The line is simple because it has to be repeatable, like a cue you can hit under pressure. That’s Ball’s real sermon: self-love as stagecraft for surviving the world.

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Lucille Ball (August 6, 1911 - April 26, 1989) was a Comedian from USA.

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