"I have to approach my life in this way so I can do what I need to do, and do it very well"
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The key move is how the sentence dodges the usual confessional tone. “Approach my life in this way” is deliberately vague, almost procedural, as if she’s talking about a work system, not a soul. That distance is the subtext: the approach matters more than the chaos it’s designed to contain. Comedians often sell spontaneity, but the job is repetition, revision, and control - timing so exact it looks effortless. Wilson’s wording acknowledges that paradox. The life isn’t the art; it’s the infrastructure that makes the art possible.
The doubled emphasis - “do what I need to do, and do it very well” - signals two pressures at once: survival and excellence. “Need” suggests responsibilities and constraints (money, health, family, the grind of auditions), while “very well” is the standard that protects her from being reduced to “good enough” in spaces where women, and particularly Black women, are often treated as interchangeable.
The intent, then, is not inspiration but permission: to be disciplined, selective, even uncompromising, because the work demands it and the world rarely hands that kind of focus to you for free.
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| Topic | Work Ethic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilson, Debra. (2026, January 16). I have to approach my life in this way so I can do what I need to do, and do it very well. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-to-approach-my-life-in-this-way-so-i-can-133468/
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Wilson, Debra. "I have to approach my life in this way so I can do what I need to do, and do it very well." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-to-approach-my-life-in-this-way-so-i-can-133468/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I have to approach my life in this way so I can do what I need to do, and do it very well." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-have-to-approach-my-life-in-this-way-so-i-can-133468/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






