"I love New York. I was sad, depressed and incredibly moved by our fellow countrymen and what they've done. I wanted to give people a chance to see something funny, have a distraction"
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Stiller’s intent is modest on the surface: “a chance to see something funny, have a distraction.” The subtext is more complicated. He’s negotiating the old suspicion that jokes are disrespectful when the stakes are real. By naming his own grief first, he earns moral standing; he’s not floating above the tragedy, he’s inside it. Then he offers humor as triage: not a solution, not even catharsis, but a controlled moment where the audience can unclench.
There’s also a quietly political move in “our fellow countrymen and what they’ve done.” It signals solidarity and gratitude - likely toward first responders and volunteers - while avoiding partisan language. That restraint matters: the goal is a shared room, not a debate stage. Stiller is selling a different kind of resilience: not chest-thumping defiance, but the radical permission to breathe, even if only for a minute.
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Stiller, Ben. (n.d.). I love New York. I was sad, depressed and incredibly moved by our fellow countrymen and what they've done. I wanted to give people a chance to see something funny, have a distraction. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-new-york-i-was-sad-depressed-and-98240/
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"I love New York. I was sad, depressed and incredibly moved by our fellow countrymen and what they've done. I wanted to give people a chance to see something funny, have a distraction." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-love-new-york-i-was-sad-depressed-and-98240/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.


