"I never learned hate at home, or shame. I had to go to school for that"
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“Never learned” is doing quiet work here. Hate and shame aren’t framed as natural instincts or personal failures; they’re acquired skills, absorbed through repetition and authority. That matters because it shifts blame from individual “bad apples” to systems that socialize people into hierarchy. And it’s not just racism he’s targeting, though that’s the obvious backbone. “Shame” widens the charge to the way schools police class, speech, bodies, neighborhood status - the subtle, daily lessons about who belongs and who should feel grateful just to be present.
Gregory’s context sharpens the edge. Coming of age under Jim Crow, watching Northern institutions claim innocence while reproducing segregation by other means, he understood that “education” can be a delivery system for compliance. As a comedian-civil rights activist, he weaponized brevity: a clean sentence with a laugh-shaped silhouette that leaves you holding something heavier. The intent isn’t nostalgia for a perfect home; it’s indictment. If hatred is taught, it can be untaught - but only if we stop pretending the classroom is automatically virtuous.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gregory, Dick. (2026, January 17). I never learned hate at home, or shame. I had to go to school for that. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-learned-hate-at-home-or-shame-i-had-to-go-51131/
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Gregory, Dick. "I never learned hate at home, or shame. I had to go to school for that." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-learned-hate-at-home-or-shame-i-had-to-go-51131/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I never learned hate at home, or shame. I had to go to school for that." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-never-learned-hate-at-home-or-shame-i-had-to-go-51131/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












