"I personally think we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain"
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Wagner's intent isn't to deliver an anthropology lecture; it's to puncture the self-seriousness we attach to communication. As a comedian and writer closely associated with Lily Tomlin's observational, character-driven satire, she understands that complaining is less a flaw than a social technology. Complaint is how people test intimacy ("Can I say this to you?"), recruit allies ("Are you seeing this too?"), and negotiate power ("I deserve better"). It's also how we narrate ourselves as protagonists in a world that keeps refusing to behave.
The subtext is sneakier: complaining is framed as "deep inner need", turning irritability into psychology, almost spirituality. That exaggeration gives the line its bite. She's not merely dunking on human negativity; she's suggesting that dissatisfaction is the engine of articulation itself. We talk because something feels off, and the gap between expectation and reality demands words.
In a culture that prizes positivity as performance, Wagner's line defends the complaint as honest data - and as comedy's raw material.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wagner, Jane. (2026, January 16). I personally think we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-personally-think-we-developed-language-because-133307/
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Wagner, Jane. "I personally think we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-personally-think-we-developed-language-because-133307/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I personally think we developed language because of our deep inner need to complain." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-personally-think-we-developed-language-because-133307/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


