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"I think I wanted to write a book about the relationship between the victim and perpetrator in which the victim agrees to remain silent"

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A comedian admitting he wanted to write a book about a victim who "agrees to remain silent" is less a plot pitch than a confession about how power actually survives. The line lands because it treats silence not as a mysterious absence but as a negotiated arrangement: the victim's quiet is something the perpetrator depends on, and something the victim is pressured to supply. Hammond's phrasing, "relationship between the victim and perpetrator", is the coldest part of it. "Relationship" softens the brutality into something almost domestic, the way institutions and families often do when they're trying to keep the peace.

The specific intent reads like an attempt to map the mechanics of complicity without blaming the harmed person. "Agrees" is doing heavy, uncomfortable work: it implies consent while hinting at coercion, survival strategy, shame, or exhaustion. The subtext is that silence is rarely a personal choice in a vacuum; it's purchased with fear, social cost, career risk, or the promise that speaking up will only make the damage spread.

Coming from Hammond, it also carries a performer’s double-vision. Comedians are trained to turn pain into material, to translate the unspeakable into something an audience can hold. That creates an eerie parallel: the victim stays silent in life; the artist breaks silence on the page, but at a remove, through structure and story. The comedy world, like plenty of entertainment ecosystems, has its own long history of protecting talent, reputations, and revenue. In that context, the line reads as both indictment and self-interrogation: not just who did what, but who learned to shut up, and what it cost them.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hammond, Darrell. (2026, January 15). I think I wanted to write a book about the relationship between the victim and perpetrator in which the victim agrees to remain silent. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-wanted-to-write-a-book-about-the-173624/

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Hammond, Darrell. "I think I wanted to write a book about the relationship between the victim and perpetrator in which the victim agrees to remain silent." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-wanted-to-write-a-book-about-the-173624/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I think I wanted to write a book about the relationship between the victim and perpetrator in which the victim agrees to remain silent." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-think-i-wanted-to-write-a-book-about-the-173624/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Darrell Hammond

Darrell Hammond (born October 8, 1955) is a Comedian from USA.

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