"I was lucky enough to know exactly what I wanted to do when I was growing up. I think one of the hardest things to figure out in life is what your calling is, and what truly makes you happy - not what you want to work at, but what you want to do"
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The quote’s key maneuver is the pivot from “work at” to “do.” That’s not semantics; it’s a critique of how adulthood trains people to confuse competence with fulfillment. “Work at” suggests performance, optimization, and external evaluation. “Do” is identity-level: what your life is made of when no one is grading you. Foley smuggles in a question many people avoid because it’s destabilizing: if your job disappeared tomorrow, what would you still choose?
There’s also an actor’s subtext in the phrase “truly makes you happy.” In a profession built on auditioning and rejection, happiness can’t be outsourced to validation. The intent feels less like a motivational poster than a warning: if you pick a path based on what you can tolerate, you’ll wake up excellent at someone else’s idea of a life.
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| Topic | Career |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Foley, Scott. (2026, January 15). I was lucky enough to know exactly what I wanted to do when I was growing up. I think one of the hardest things to figure out in life is what your calling is, and what truly makes you happy - not what you want to work at, but what you want to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-lucky-enough-to-know-exactly-what-i-wanted-164537/
Chicago Style
Foley, Scott. "I was lucky enough to know exactly what I wanted to do when I was growing up. I think one of the hardest things to figure out in life is what your calling is, and what truly makes you happy - not what you want to work at, but what you want to do." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-lucky-enough-to-know-exactly-what-i-wanted-164537/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was lucky enough to know exactly what I wanted to do when I was growing up. I think one of the hardest things to figure out in life is what your calling is, and what truly makes you happy - not what you want to work at, but what you want to do." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-lucky-enough-to-know-exactly-what-i-wanted-164537/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


