"I was married for 30 years. Isn't that enough? I've had my share of dirty underwear on the floor"
About this Quote
The “30 years” isn’t just a statistic; it’s a receipt. Stewart frames marriage as time served, not a fairy tale interrupted. “Isn’t that enough?” turns a cultural expectation into a rhetorical eye-roll, pushing back on the idea that a woman’s legitimacy, stability, or desirability should be tethered to a husband. The subtext is less “I’m anti-marriage” than “I’ve already paid the dues society keeps insisting I owe.”
There’s also a sly brand inversion happening. Stewart built an empire on domestic mastery, yet here she’s stripping the home of its curated glow and admitting what her audience knows but rarely gets permission to say out loud: partnership can be mundane, messy, and exhausting in ways that no lifestyle spread captures. Coming from an entertainer who’s survived reinvention, scandal, and meme-ification, it reads like a late-career flex: she’s not auditioning for respectability anymore. She’s claiming the right to be done cleaning up after someone else.
Quote Details
| Topic | Marriage |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
| Cite |
Citation Formats
APA Style (7th ed.)
Stewart, Martha. (2026, January 16). I was married for 30 years. Isn't that enough? I've had my share of dirty underwear on the floor. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-married-for-30-years-isnt-that-enough-ive-112472/
Chicago Style
Stewart, Martha. "I was married for 30 years. Isn't that enough? I've had my share of dirty underwear on the floor." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-married-for-30-years-isnt-that-enough-ive-112472/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I was married for 30 years. Isn't that enough? I've had my share of dirty underwear on the floor." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-married-for-30-years-isnt-that-enough-ive-112472/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







