"I was very, very shy as a younger girl, just petrified of people. Tennis helped give me an identity and made me feel like somebody"
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The key word is "identity". Shyness isn’t only discomfort; it’s the sense of being unreadable even to yourself. Tennis offers a script: you are the one who competes, who trains, who belongs on the other side of the net. "Made me feel like somebody" lands with a little ache because it admits what high-achievement narratives usually hide: that confidence often arrives as borrowed certainty, granted by a role society recognizes. In the 1970s and 80s, women’s tennis was one of the rare mainstream arenas where a young woman could be visibly excellent and materially rewarded for it, not in spite of her restraint but sometimes because of it.
Subtext: the court became a controlled social world. Rules, points, lines. You don’t have to be loud to be legible; you just have to win. And once you’re "somebody", the crowd can’t look away, which is the opposite of what the shy kid wanted - and exactly what the champion needed.
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Evert, Chris. (2026, January 16). I was very, very shy as a younger girl, just petrified of people. Tennis helped give me an identity and made me feel like somebody. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-very-very-shy-as-a-younger-girl-just-129991/
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"I was very, very shy as a younger girl, just petrified of people. Tennis helped give me an identity and made me feel like somebody." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-was-very-very-shy-as-a-younger-girl-just-129991/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.




