"I went to the premiere of The Detective with Sinatra, and perhaps people jumped to conclusions. He was very protective towards me and never came on to me sexually"
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The sentence that follows pivots from gossip to boundary-setting. “Protective” is a loaded word in Hollywood history: it can mean mentorship, gatekeeping, possession, or PR choreography. Bisset claims the best version of it while acknowledging the suspicion baked into the worst. She’s not romanticizing Sinatra; she’s separating care from entitlement, attention from access.
Then comes the blunt corrective: “never came on to me sexually.” It’s striking partly because it has to be said at all. The phrasing tells you what the default assumption was (that a famous older man’s interest must be sexual) and what the default fear was (that it might not be safe). Bisset’s insistence reads less like salacious clarification than like a rewrite of the script women were expected to accept: that protection is always transactional, that mentorship always has a price.
In the post-#MeToo era, her anecdote lands as both rarity and reminder: decency stands out because the culture trained everyone to treat it as implausible.
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Bisset, Jacqueline. (2026, January 18). I went to the premiere of The Detective with Sinatra, and perhaps people jumped to conclusions. He was very protective towards me and never came on to me sexually. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-the-premiere-of-the-detective-with-23431/
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Bisset, Jacqueline. "I went to the premiere of The Detective with Sinatra, and perhaps people jumped to conclusions. He was very protective towards me and never came on to me sexually." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-the-premiere-of-the-detective-with-23431/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I went to the premiere of The Detective with Sinatra, and perhaps people jumped to conclusions. He was very protective towards me and never came on to me sexually." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-went-to-the-premiere-of-the-detective-with-23431/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.


