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"If we only wanted to be happy, it would be easy; but we want to be happier than other people, and that is almost always difficult, since we think them happier than they are"

- Charles de Montesquieu

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Charles de Montesquieu's quote explores the complexities of human desire and understanding, especially worrying happiness. At stated value, the declaration recommends that accomplishing happiness in its easiest kind is easy. However, the inherent challenge lies in the human tendency to desire not simply happiness, but a comparative joy-- joy that is measured relative to others.

The pursuit of being "happier than other people" introduces an external benchmark for happiness, making it a competitive and evasive goal. This desire starts a cycle of contrast, which can result in frustration and distress. When individuals determine their happiness against the perceived joy of others, they often do so with an inaccurate understanding of those others' real states. We tend to idealize or overestimate the happiness of others based on their outside looks or social media representations, overlooking the complex realities that everybody experiences.

Montesquieu's observation highlights a basic principle of human behavior-- social comparison. Humans are inherently social creatures, and comparing ourselves to others is a natural propensity. However, the quote warns that such contrasts can lead to misconceptions and ultimately prevent our own capability to find genuine happiness. The notion that others are happier than they actually are can impart a sense of inadequacy or failure, even when one's own life is objectively favorable.

In essence, Montesquieu records the paradox of human satisfaction: the easiest type of joy is available, yet unattainable when convoluted by the requirement to go beyond others. By concentrating on individual contentment instead of contrast, individuals might find a more authentic and sustainable type of joy. Highlighting gratitude for one's own life situations and achievements, and valuing happiness in its genuine type, may cause a more fulfilling life experience devoid of the burdens of contrast.

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Charles de Montesquieu This quote is written / told by Charles de Montesquieu between January 18, 1689 and February 10, 1755. He was a famous Philosopher from France. The author also have 35 other quotes.

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