"If you can't accept losing, you can't win"
About this Quote
The intent is practical: losses are information. They expose weak conditioning, bad reads, complacency, fear. But the subtext is harsher. Lombardi is warning against entitlement, the fantasy that effort guarantees outcomes. That mindset makes athletes brittle; the first setback becomes personal betrayal, and the team fractures into blame and alibis. Accepting losing doesn’t mean liking it. It means refusing to let it hijack decision-making.
Context matters because Lombardi coached in an era when toughness was a cultural currency, and “winning” wasn’t just a scoreboard result but a moral story Americans told about themselves. The line translates that era’s values into a usable psychological principle: resilience isn’t motivational poster material; it’s a competitive advantage. The teams that can stare down a bad quarter, a blown assignment, or a season-ending loss without spiraling are the ones that keep experimenting, keep practicing, keep trusting the system long enough to earn the next win.
Quote Details
| Topic | Motivational |
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| Source | Later attribution: Whoever Makes the Most Mistakes Wins (Richard Farson, Ralph Keyes, 2003) modern compilationISBN: 9780743254427 · ID: TiuuYa5wCSgC
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| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on May 12, 2023 |
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