"If you don't know by now, you're never going to know"
About this Quote
Coming from a hitmaking producer steeped in R&B’s push-pull of devotion and disappointment, the quote reads like the studio version of a final text message. It’s not rage; it’s resignation with rhythm. Dupri’s world is full of songs where feelings are communicated through repetition - hooks, choruses, the same argument circling back until it either lands or it doesn’t. This sentence is the anti-hook. No more replay value, no more explaining the obvious.
The subtext is a critique of selective cluelessness, the kind that lets people avoid accountability while pretending they’re still “figuring it out.” It’s also a self-protective mantra: stop auditioning someone for a role they’ve already failed. In pop culture, we romanticize patience and “growth.” Dupri’s line cuts through that fantasy with a harder truth: sometimes the limit isn’t love, it’s comprehension - and you can’t build a relationship on a translation that never arrives.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dupri, Jermaine. (2026, January 17). If you don't know by now, you're never going to know. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-know-by-now-youre-never-going-to-know-78588/
Chicago Style
Dupri, Jermaine. "If you don't know by now, you're never going to know." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-know-by-now-youre-never-going-to-know-78588/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you don't know by now, you're never going to know." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-dont-know-by-now-youre-never-going-to-know-78588/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.










