"If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you"
About this Quote
The intent is corrective, almost diagnostic. “If you would only recognize” frames the listener as stuck in denial, not in bad luck. Brandeis isn’t romanticizing struggle; he’s trying to strip struggle of its extra tax: surprise, resentment, the constant sense that reality is malfunctioning. Accepting hardness doesn’t remove obstacles, but it removes the exhausting second battle - the fight against the fact that there’s a fight at all.
Subtextually, it’s also a rebuke to entitlement dressed as advice. Brandeis belonged to a generation that prized self-discipline and civic responsibility; the quote channels that ethic without sermonizing. It suggests that resilience is less about heroic grit than about calibration: set your expectations to the actual conditions, and you regain agency.
In context, it reads like the worldview of someone steeped in consequences. Courts can’t make life gentle; they can only arbitrate damage. Brandeis’s twist is to offer a mental precedent: rule first on reality, then negotiate with it.
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Brandeis, Louis D. (2026, January 17). If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-would-only-recognize-that-life-is-hard-72298/
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Brandeis, Louis D. "If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-would-only-recognize-that-life-is-hard-72298/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-would-only-recognize-that-life-is-hard-72298/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









