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Parenting & Family Quote by Eddie Murphy

"I'm 42 and the age of a guy who has kids, so I guess I'm playing right where I'm supposed to be. I'm comfortable with that, but in the same breath I'd do something edgy. If someone came to me and offered me an edgy and funny story, then I'd do it"

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Murphy is staging a negotiation between the person he is now and the brand people still want him to be. At 42, he frames himself as legible: a dad, age-appropriate, parked neatly in the lane Hollywood assigns to middle-aged men who’ve “settled.” The phrase “playing right where I’m supposed to be” isn’t pride; it’s a wry acknowledgement of how career arcs get policed. You can hear the industry’s invisible stage directions in it: be reliable, be warm, be safe enough for a family audience.

Then he flips it: “in the same breath I’d do something edgy.” That’s not just a promise of range; it’s a reminder of his original cultural function. Murphy didn’t become Eddie Murphy by being tasteful. His early persona was velocity and risk, the kind of comedy that felt like it might get you in trouble just for laughing. By positioning “edgy and funny” as an offer that has to come to him, he’s also telling on the economics of star power: he’s no longer hustling for provocation, he’s waiting for material worthy of his appetite for it.

The subtext is control. He’s rejecting the idea that parenthood equals domestication, while conceding that audiences read it that way. It’s a savvy middle-aged artist’s move: claim comfort without surrendering danger, keep the door open to transgression, but on chosen terms.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Murphy, Eddie. (2026, January 16). I'm 42 and the age of a guy who has kids, so I guess I'm playing right where I'm supposed to be. I'm comfortable with that, but in the same breath I'd do something edgy. If someone came to me and offered me an edgy and funny story, then I'd do it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-42-and-the-age-of-a-guy-who-has-kids-so-i-111582/

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Murphy, Eddie. "I'm 42 and the age of a guy who has kids, so I guess I'm playing right where I'm supposed to be. I'm comfortable with that, but in the same breath I'd do something edgy. If someone came to me and offered me an edgy and funny story, then I'd do it." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-42-and-the-age-of-a-guy-who-has-kids-so-i-111582/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I'm 42 and the age of a guy who has kids, so I guess I'm playing right where I'm supposed to be. I'm comfortable with that, but in the same breath I'd do something edgy. If someone came to me and offered me an edgy and funny story, then I'd do it." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/im-42-and-the-age-of-a-guy-who-has-kids-so-i-111582/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Eddie Murphy (born April 3, 1961) is a Comedian from USA.

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