"In high school and college all my friends and my brother wrestled"
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Wrestling matters here because it’s one of the most literal performances of American masculinity: bodies measured, ranked, disciplined, put on display. Saying everyone around him wrestled isn’t trivia; it’s a way of describing a world built around strength and contact, where camaraderie is forged through sanctioned aggression. For an actor whose public image was often flattened into spectacle, the subtext reads like a memory of being out of sync with the dominant script before Hollywood ever got a chance to typecast him.
The sentence also does something deceptively clever: it refuses self-pity. No explicit “I couldn’t” or “I wasn’t included,” just the observation. That restraint forces the listener to fill in what’s missing, which is exactly how exclusion often works in real life - unannounced, unargued, simply assumed. In a culture that treated Troyer as an exception, he’s pointing back to the original, mundane place where exceptions are first manufactured.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Troyer, Verne. (n.d.). In high school and college all my friends and my brother wrestled. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-high-school-and-college-all-my-friends-and-my-168648/
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Troyer, Verne. "In high school and college all my friends and my brother wrestled." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-high-school-and-college-all-my-friends-and-my-168648/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In high school and college all my friends and my brother wrestled." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-high-school-and-college-all-my-friends-and-my-168648/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.



